Taking responsibility and ownership of the kids is a great sin!!!

In my life I have met with lots of parents-kids relationship trauma.

According to me, taking responsibility and ownership of of their own kids is a sin in India. This is applicable for the parents who thinks they are the responsibile owners of their own kids, and when the kids say, there is a limit and even parents cannot interfere in their personal life beyond a point. Hence I feel, we should take responsibility only to a level, until they reach to a distance and leave them. Kids use parents as a ladder and later point in time, they do not want to look back and they do not want to come back to their old life.

So taking ownership and responsibility on the kids is not necessary beyond a point of time and like any other animals in life, make them to fly and make them to handle life alone and come out of their life. No need to interfere and this will create lot of good things in ones self life and will bring peace and happiness automatically.

Aasaiyee...thunbathirrkku kaaranam!! Just throw the responsibility and ownership out of your hearts and you will be releived and feel happy!!!!

Ultimate thing, one needs in life is happiness and it is within our heart. No need to go in search of it from sons or daughters , who can never constantly bring it to you!!!

Be free and feel happy.