If you want a woman to be.........

If you want a woman who always take care of herself and thinks about only her self and not bothering about the counter part
If you want a woman who always goes away from the counter part and enjoy alone in the park and the swimming pool
If you want a woman who always roams around the city by expending all the money her counter part earns
If you want a woman who buys stuff on her own for herself and forces the counterpart to wear what she chooses
If you want a woman who makes a man to roam around the house as a maid and eats what he cooks
If you want a woman who gobbles all the money and telling people around that all she wants is money and not gifts from others
If you want a woman who never stays at home though stamped as a home maker and roams around the shopping malls every day or the other
If you want a woman who takes all the decisions starting from buying everything at home to making financial decisions
If you want a woman who forces the counterpart to make money illegally on her name
If you want a woman who takes decisions on the upkeep of the house and going away from the family traditions and culture
If you want a woman who manages all the money and finance of the house
If you want a woman who totally/wantedly ignores her own mother in law but comments about others’
If you want a woman who avoids visiting mother-in-law but needs only her husband
If you want a woman who makes the options of setting up the house holds things of her choice
If you want a woman who is dumb and making others dumb
If you want a woman who promptly updates about to other people’s mother-in-law
If you want a woman who never speaks to her husband in-front of others, but takes all the decisions at the background
If you want a woman who never opens her mouth on any kind of family discussion in front of others
If you want a woman who forces her counter part, not to take care of his parents
If you want a woman who talks ill about her in-laws, about their in capabilities and comparing with others
If you want a woman who plays double game with her counterpart and hides things from him
If you want a woman who keeps mumbling about her own counterpart whenever we meet
If you want a woman who keeps mumbling about her own self and the financial conditions of her own family
If you want a woman who has made use of her own mother-in-law as washing machine and dishwasher
If you want a woman who mumbles about her own mother-in-law, but never get rid of her for own selfish reasons
Ultimately, If you want a woman to be just a flowerpot!!!

I am not of that kind……. I am very sorry!!! I am woman of different caliber!!! You can never understand me and I can never expect you to understand me!!!

Freak Accident

Y'day, I met with a freak accident. We both went to a temple, came out towards the two wheeler. He started the vehicle and I was about to get into the pillion. Suddenly a big blow from my back and i could not balance and fell down. He yelled at me there is a car backing up and it has hit me already. I was about to get up and balance my self and before a fraction of second, there was a second big blow. I totally lost my balance and fell down completely. Scratches all over and before I recognize what is happening, He started to fight with the driver and gave a big blow on his face and everywhere. I told him to stopp.........I am OKKKKKKKKKK.... but He gave a big shot to that driver.

Now I am very much feeling for that driver. Poor guy, infront of the temple, he had to get big blows from him for a smaller mistake of not switching the car lights on, and reversing without thinking who is behind the car!!!!

Bad time for me and the driver and my husband's wrist which got hurt after the fight!!!!

Diwali Sweets

Celebrating Diwali!

Some years ago, when we celebrate Diwali, there would be some sort of expectation towards, wearing new dress, bursting crackers, to eat lot of sweets, share sweets among frineds relatives etc... We usually buy dresses for selective festivals like this and there was a value for it. We usually make sweets only for certain specific festivals with specific sweets and there was a value for it. We used to live in independent houses where in we will have a big space infront of the houses and bursting crackers in front of the house along with neighbours was a big fun.

Now a days all these values hase gone with the wind. Since people buy dresses for any occassions without hesitations and get the sweets from the sweet shops etc..those old age values has gone. Since people live in small petty flats, bursting crackers tradition has already gone. Since people get lot of sweets from outside and offices etc...no value for the sweets prepared at home and distributed by relatives. People give a bad look at the sweets made at home and the value for the effort and time spent on to make sweets and savories has already gone.

Recently i saw an event. Some one visiting somebody's home do not worry to share the sweets they get from office etc.. They pluck out the sweets they like and share the remains to the friends'/relatives place. I dont know what kind of culture it is..........

The eagarly served sweets/food is not given with any respect and they are all of given with the least value and no one wants to talk about it also.

The value for the old age tradition has totally gone...............